Being an Insider Term Paper

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During my senior year in high school my family and I moved back to California after having moved to Atlanta for a short spell. During this year for the first time in a long time I really started to feel highly valued and part of a group again. My classroom during my senior year was full of students from multiple ethnicities ... black, Hispanic, Asian and even Middle Eastern. During my short stay in Atlanta I often felt like my Asian heritage made me an outsider. Not so in California however, where I found several different groups of people with similar backgrounds to hang out with. I learned that diversity fosters independence, confidence and for some including myself, a sense of comfort knowing that not everyone is the same, and that is acceptable and appreciated in some circumstances.

My classmates in California were familiar to me; they dressed the same way I did in the same brands, so I didn't feel like I stood out like a sore thumb. People smiled at me or asked how things were going all the time, even when I was just walking down the hall. I felt more spontaneous like I could be myself and make friends. The people around me also contributed to this feeling, by introducing themselves and asking me something about my experiences or where I had moved from. Most of them seemed genuinely interested in my story.


Being in this setting allowed me to draw on my naturally extroverted nature. I felt comfortable chatting people up and inviting various people that were strangers to get to know me and my new friends. My classmates helped the transition tremendously, because they invited me to take part in cultural events at school, have lunch together and even hang out after class. Being invited into the group helped me feel comfortable enough to share my true personality. My self-esteem soared, as did my desire to share my good feelings with others.

Several classmates also offered to show me around so I got used to my surroundings again, even though I had lived in California in the past. This experience taught me that feeling included has a tremendous impact on one's self-esteem and performance. Not only did I feel good each and ever day, but my grades improved dramatically.

Being the new person in school is much like being a new employee in an organization. There are several things organizational leaders can do to help new members of the group feel welcome. Welcoming new employees is vital to the success of a company because among other things it fosters self-esteem and communication, an….....

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